3 Ways to Start Experimenting with BDSM
If you’re ready to introduce a little kink to your life here’s a piece of advice for you. Taking it slow and not breaching trust are the two single most important things you can do. If you’re in a long-term relationship and want to spice things up a little with BDSM, now is as good a time as any.

Do It All Over

Do It All Over

Having sex all over the place that uses elements of BDSM is a great way to welcome kink with open arms without doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. Just like you can tie your partner to your headboard, you can tie him up in the car, or instead of whipped cream at home, use lube at a hotel. Speaking of lube, many members of the BDSM community will argue that having lube at home is like having milk in the refrigerator. Using lube leads to elevated levels of arousal, and when it’s coupled with the fact that you’re on vacation, and your mind is at piece, your sexual gratification will be immense. When you get more comfortable with using BDSM toys in the bedroom, try using them in public places as the thrill of getting caught is like no other, provided you don’t actually end up with a hefty fine.

Coleen Singer is a writer, photographer, film editor and all-around geeky gal at Sssh.com, where she often waxes eloquent about sex, porn, sex toys, censorship, the literary and pandering evils of Fifty Shades of Grey and other topics not likely to be found on the Pulitzer Prize shortlist. She is also the editor and curator of EroticScribes.com.

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