3 Ways to Start Experimenting with BDSM

Do It All Over

Having sex all over the place that uses elements of BDSM is a great way to welcome kink with open arms without doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. Just like you can tie your partner to your headboard, you can tie him up in the car, or instead of whipped cream at home, use lube at a hotel. Speaking of lube, many members of the BDSM community will argue that having lube at home is like having milk in the refrigerator. Using lube leads to elevated levels of arousal, and when it’s coupled with the fact that you’re on vacation, and your mind is at piece, your sexual gratification will be immense. When you get more comfortable with using BDSM toys in the bedroom, try using them in public places as the thrill of getting caught is like no other, provided you don’t actually end up with a hefty fine.