3 Ways to Start Experimenting with BDSM
If you’re ready to introduce a little kink to your life here’s a piece of advice for you. Taking it slow and not breaching trust are the two single most important things you can do. If you’re in a long-term relationship and want to spice things up a little with BDSM, now is as good a time as any.

Use Oils/Whipped Cream

Use Oils/Whipped Cream

When you’re turned on your body responds to the slightest touch in a different way than usual. If you want to enhance your sexual experience BDSM style, introduce oils (possibly edible) and/or whipped cream into your sex games. Avoid wax or anything hot, and use room temperature oil and whipped cream as you don’t want any shrinkage due to cold mixtures coming from the fridge. Instead of doing it in the bedroom, do it in the kitchen to change the scenery as you introduce new sensations, which is the point of BDSM. Contrary to popular opinion, BDSM games don’t necessarily need to inflict pain, and there is no need to be a vampire girl  sticking your fangs down someone’s neck. All they need to do is raise the level of arousal to the point never reached before.

Coleen Singer is a writer, photographer, film editor and all-around geeky gal at Sssh.com, where she often waxes eloquent about sex, porn, sex toys, censorship, the literary and pandering evils of Fifty Shades of Grey and other topics not likely to be found on the Pulitzer Prize shortlist. She is also the editor and curator of EroticScribes.com.

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